Pono ʻoe e ʻike

ʻO ka mea mua e ʻike ai, ʻo ka ʻauʻau mare he pāʻina ia e pili ana i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā makana i ka wahine mare. Mai ka manaʻo etiquette, he aha ke ʻano o kēia ʻaʻole kūpono i ka ʻauʻau male ke hoʻokipa ʻia e ka makuahine a i ʻole nā ​​kaikuahine o ka wahine mare, no ka mea hiki ke nānā aku me he mea lā e hopu ana lākou i nā makana nona. ʻO kahi koho maikaʻi loa no ka mea hoʻokipa ʻo ia kekahi o nā wahine mare ʻaʻole pili pili o ka wahine mare. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki i ka ʻohana o ka wahine mare ke kōkua i ka ʻauʻau. No ka laʻana, inā noho nā wahine mare ma nā keʻena liʻiliʻi, hiki ke mālama ʻia ka ʻauʻau ma ka makuahine o ka hale o ka wahine mare, akā me nā inoa o nā wahine mare ma nā kono e like me nā mea hoʻokipa.

ʻO kahi mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai ka wahine mare ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i kahi hoaaloha e ʻauʻau ma kou ʻaoʻao. ʻO ka hoʻolālā ʻana i ka ʻauʻau mare he manawa a me ke kumukūʻai, a ʻoiai ua hoʻonohonoho maʻamau ʻia e kekahi a ʻoi aku paha o nā wahine mare, ʻaʻole ia kekahi o kā lākou kuleana. Loaʻa paha kekahi o kāu mau hoaaloha pili e piʻi a hāʻawi e hoʻokipa i kahi pāʻina no ʻoe; e hōʻoia wale ʻo ia e hana me ka makemake, ʻaʻole ma lalo o ke kaomi.

ʻO ka papa inoa malihini o ka ʻauʻau male mare e pono wale nō nā malihini i kono maoli ʻia i ka male. ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o ka huhū ke noi aku i nā malihini e hele mai i kahi pāʻina a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i makana me ka hoʻokomo ʻole iā lākou i ka hanana nui. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa wale nō i kēia ke hana ʻoe i ke ʻano o ke keʻena i loaʻa kahi keke no kēlā me kēia hanana imaginable. Inā makemake kou mau hoa hana e hui a hoʻoinu iā ʻoe ma mua o kāu male ʻana, ʻo ia kā lākou kuleana.

ʻO ka loina kuʻuna e pili ana i nā makana ʻauʻau, he mea liʻiliʻi ia e hiki ai i ka wahine mare ke hoʻohana i kona home hou, a i ʻole he mea leʻaleʻa no ka mahina meli. Ma keʻano laulā, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka makana ʻauʻau ma mua o ka makana mare, ʻoiai ʻo ke ʻano o nā makahiki i hala iho nei ua pili pū kekahi i nā makana ʻauʻau. Inā maopopo ʻole ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau mau i kekahi o nā malihini ʻē aʻe i ke ʻano o nā makana a lākou e lawe mai nei e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻimi i kahi kumu kūʻai ʻaʻole e nānā keu a i ʻole ka chintzy. Inā ʻike maikaʻi ʻoe i ka wahine mare, he manaʻo maikaʻi ke kiʻi iā ia i kahi mea kūikawā āna i ʻimi nei no kāna male ʻana. ʻO ka manawa pinepine e hele pū kekahi pūʻulu o nā wahine mare i nā makana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, e like me kahi pūʻulu nani o nā mea mare.

Ma hope o ka male ʻana, aia kahi ʻāpana hope loa e nānā ʻia: kākau i nā memo mahalo! ʻO ka hana a ka wahine mare ke kākau lima i kahi leka noʻonoʻo no kāna mau makana male, mai ka mea nani loa a hiki i ka mea lawe ipu haʻahaʻa. Mai hoʻopaneʻe - he hana maʻalahi kēia ke hana ʻia i ka pule ma hope o ka ʻauʻau. ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi ʻo ia ka hana ʻana i kahi papa inoa o ka makana a me ka inoa o ka mea hāʻawi i ka wā ʻauʻau. Ma ia ala, ʻaʻole ʻoe e poina e hoʻomaikaʻi aku i kekahi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ka hōʻike ʻana i kou mahalo puʻuwai he ʻano maikaʻi mau!