Isongo se-Charm sibambe isibheno esikwindawo yonke kunye nesentimental

Xa kufikwa kubafazi nakubuphi na ubudala, mhlawumbi enye yezona zinto zikhethwayo zobucwebe ezihlala zinomtsalane kunye nesibheno seemvakalelo yintsimbi yomtsalane. Ixesha elide lihlonitshwa ngenxa yesimboli kunye nobuhle bayo, i-charm bracelets ziye zatshintsha ukutyhubela amashumi eminyaka - kungekuphela nje ukuhambelana nezitayile zangoku, kodwa kunye nokwenza iindlela ezintsha zobucwebe.

Xa isongo sesacholo sakudala sifika engqondweni, sihlala sicinga ngamakhubalo ajingayo ajingayo enziwe ngesilivere eqaqambileyo eyayinxitywa ngoomakhulu bethu ngeminyaka yoo-1950s. Eli yayilishumi leminyaka elichazayo lebracelet enomtsalane. Kwizithende zeMfazwe Yehlabathi II, amajoni amaninzi anika abathandekayo bawo ngamakhubalo anqabileyo amele izixeko zaseYurophu i-U.S. yanceda ukukhulula.

Lo mkhwa wanikezela kwindlela yokuyilwa kweentsimbi zobucwebe ezilungiselelwe amantombazana amancinci, afika nje ubudala. Isacholo somtsalane sasimele izinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto ezinomdla kwintombazana ekhulayo ekhulayo. Njengoko wayefikelela ebufazini, amakhubalo ongezwa kwisacholo ngezihlandlo eziphawulwayo, ezinjengomtshato okanye ukuzalwa komntwana. Izacholo ze-Charm zeminyaka yee-1950s zaba luhlobo lwesimboli somgangatho wodidi oluphakathi olukhulayo kunye neziganeko zobomi bomfuziselo eziguqule intombazana ibe ngumfazi.

Phantse nabani na unokukhumbula "i-best friend" izacholo zobucwebe ezimele amacala amabini entliziyo enye ngamagama athi "Okugqwesileyo" abhalwe kwisiqingatha sentliziyo kunye "Abahlobo" babhalwe kwelinye. Xa zidibene, zakha intliziyo efezekileyo. Olu luvo lunye lobuhlobo lubonakaliswa kwizacholo ezidumileyo ezenziwe ngamaTaliyane ezinikezela amagama athi "Oyena Mntu" kunye "noMhlobo" kumakhubalo abo angena emzimbeni wesongo, kunokuba ajinge kuwo.

Izacholo ze-Charm zikwasebenza njengotshintshiselwano lwezipho olugqibeleleyo phakathi kwabahlobo. Ngamanye amaxesha abahlobo ababini banokutshintshiselana okanye bathenge ikhubalo ukuze bafumane isacholo somnye. Ngamanye amaxesha, owasetyhini unokupha umhlobo wakhe ngesacholo esinomtsalane, mhlawumbi ngosuku lokuzalwa, olunokongezwa ngokudlula kwezinye iimeko ezibalulekileyo zobomi.

Elinye iqela labahlobo abasenyongweni laqalisa ukunikana izacholo ezinomtsalane xa ilungu lelo qela lafuduka. Umhlobo ngamnye ukhethe ikhubalo elikhethekileyo elimele umdla wakhe okanye into ayithandayo. Ngokomzekelo, umhlobo owayethanda ukubhaka wakhetha ipini yokugoqa isilivere. Omnye wakhetha imbiza yeti ebonisa uthando lwesiselo. Owesithathu wakhetha inowuthi yomculo evakalisa uthando lwakhe ngomculo. Idityaniswe kunye, isacholo somtsalane sanika umhlobo owayefuduka isikhumbuzo esibambekayo nesichukumisayo sothando nenkxaso yabahlobo bakhe.

Izacholo ezinomtsalane zanamhlanje ziye zakhula ngokwenene; akusafuneki ubhideke kukusukela izinto zamantombazana. Umzekelo, i-bracelets ephefumlelweyo yaseDenmark ethathe imboni ngesaqhwithi, ziingceba ezintle zobugcisa ezinesitayile kwaye zahlukile. Uyilo lwemodyuli yebracelet luvumela amakhubalo ukuba afakwe kuyo nayiphi na ifashoni ukuze alungele ukuthanda okanye ukuthanda komfazi. Ukujija kancinci ngokushukuma kwesihlahla kudala ifuthe elitsala amehlo, ngakumbi njengoko abantu ababukeleyo bethanda amakhubalo anqabileyo anjengeglasi yeMurano, amakhubalo esilivere aqaqambileyo, amakhubalo egolide, kunye namatye anqabileyo.

Iintsimbi zobucwebe kunye neendandatho nazo ziyafumaneka ukuba zinxibe kunye namasongo, ukudala ukubukeka okumangalisayo. Kodwa nje ukuba owasetyhini atshintshe ingqondo yakhe (kuba yeyona nto siyenza ngcono leyo), unokuphinda alungelelanise amakhubalo akhe ukuze enze inkangeleko entsha ngokupheleleyo. I-Charms inokukhethwa emele iinyanga zokuzalwa zamalungu entsapho yakhe, umyalezo okhethekileyo wothando okanye ithemba, okanye "ngenxa yokuba" ikhubalo kumbala wakhe awuthandayo. Abanye abafazi bakhetha amakhubalo kwisilivere enqabileyo okanye igolide kuphela. Abanye benza imidibaniso enemibala ehambelana nempahla abayithandayo.