Ukukhetha isipho soSuku lweValentine esingazukukuqhwaba ngempama

Usuku lweValentine lunokuba luxinzelelo olukhulu kubafana. Kusenokuba luxinzelelo olukhulu ukufumana isipho aya kusithande, kwaye kulula kakhulu ukusikruqula. Kuya kuba lula ngokwaneleyo, uya kucinga, ukufumana into eya kuthandwa ngumfazi okanye intombi yakho. Nangona kunjalo, nokuba sele usazi ixesha elingakanani na umntu, kuselula kakhulu ukujika i-14 kaFebhruwari ibe liphupha elibi eliya kukukhathaza ixesha elide. Inxalenye yayo kungenxa yokulindela ukuba abafazi baye baphuhlisa, ubukhulu becala ekubukeleni ezo filimu zisenza sifune ukutsiba ngefestile. Abadlali kwiimuvi banalo lula kakhulu. Liqhekeza lekeyiki ukubonakala njengendoda egqibeleleyo xa uyifakela kwifilim iiyure ezimbalwa. Kufuneka sizame ukuphila ngokuvisisana naloo nto ngalo lonke ixesha. Nanga amacebiso ambalwa okujongana neNdubedubedube yoSuku lweValentine ezayo enokuthi yenzeke ukuba anibambani ndawonye. Nangona "yiholide yeHallmark," iSt. UValentine wayeyindoda yokwenene. Wayengumbingeleli kwiCawa yamaKristu okuqala owayesenza imitshato engekho mthethweni phakathi kwamaKristu awayezingelwa buBukhosi baseRoma. Uxolo, kodwa lo mfo wayeneebhola. Wayesazi ukuba loo nto yayinokumenza abulawe, kodwa wabambelela ngokuqinileyo kwiinkolelo zakhe waza wancedisa ekungcwalisweni iimanyano zothando zabazalwana bakhe bonqulo ababetshutshiswa de wabanjwa waza wabulawa. Waba ngumfeli-nkolo kwingcamango yothando lobuKristu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba inkolo yakho, ndicinga ukuba kusengqiqweni ukunika abantu iipropu zabo zokuyibeka emgceni ukuze babambelele kwiinkolelo zabo. Ke, inyathelo lokuqala kukucofa ukugxeka kwakho malunga neholide. Abanye banokuyisebenzisa njengenye inkqubo yokwenza imali, kodwa inokuba nentsingiselo yokwenyani ukuba ukhetha ukuyibona ngolo hlobo. Ukuba ufunda oku, mhlawumbi uqalise kakuhle. Impazamo yokuqala eyenziwa ngabafana xa kufikwa kusuku lweValentine kukulibala ngayo ngokupheleleyo. Beka oko kwikhalenda yakho ASAP, kunye nesikhumbuzo sakho kunye nomhla wakhe wokuzalwa - ukuba ufuna ukuphila. Isitshixo esilandelayo kukwenza uhlengahlengiso, ubuncinci kwinyanga ngaphambili ukuba kuyenzeka. Mbuze imibuzo, uthethe nabahlobo nezalamane zakhe, uze wenze nantoni na onokuyenza ukuze wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Undoqo ekukhetheni isipho esithile kukuphulaphula. Akukho mbono wendalo yonke wesipho esikhulu sikaValentine. Yazi inenekazi lakho. Iirozi, iitshokholethi, kunye nezilwanyana ezixutyiweyo zinokuba zilungele enye intombazana kunye nehlaya kwenye. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza ubuqhophololo malunga nayo, ungazama ukuphanda kancinci: "Sisiphi esona sipho silungileyo / esibi kakhulu sikaValentine owakhe wasifumana?" okanye "uDave ebecinga ukufumana uEmily ____________________. Ngaba ucinga ukuba angayithanda?" Oku kunokuvakala ngathi ngamaqhinga aphantsi, kodwa kungcono kunokuqhushumba ngenxa yokuba awuwenzi umsebenzi wakho wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya. Ecaleni kubahlobo nezalamane eziluncedo, i-intanethi ngoyena mhlobo wakho xa isiza kule nkqubo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uvumele ixesha lokuthumela. Olunye lolona khetho ndiluthandayo bubucwebe bomntu. Abasetyhini abaninzi bayazithanda izacholo, kodwa zinokubiza kakhulu. Uninzi lwezacholo ezintle zixabisa intywenka yemali, kwaye uninzi lwezacholo eziphantsi zikhangeleka, kakuhle... zitshiphu. Ubucwebe bomntu bulungelelaniso olukhulu. Ungafumana igama lomgexo elihle kwaye elingabizi kakhulu. Kuba iintsimbi zomqala zichanekile kumamkeli (ucinga ukuba ufumana enye enegama lakhe hayi elomnye umntu), unento yokwenza ngokwezifiso, exabisa amanqaku amakhulu. Uvakalelo lubalulekile, kwaye abasetyhini abaninzi bangathanda intsimbi yomqala engabizi kakhulu ukuba uthathe inkathazo ukuba uyilungisele yona kwiqhekeza lezacholo eliduru kodwa elingenabuntu.Xa kufikwa kwizinto ezityiwayo, lumka ngeetshokholethi. Ukuba uya kumhlaba wetshokholethi, fumanisa ukuba yintoni ayithandayo kwaye uyithanda kangakanani. Oku kunzima kuba kulula ukukhubekisa umntu ngempazamo. Nje ukuba wenze ukhetho lwakho, vele unike. Sukuthetha. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthe "Ndikufumene ibhokisi encinci kuba ndiyazi ukuba uzama ukunciphisa umzimba," awukwazi ukuyenza iphile. Indlela elula ethi "Ndiyathemba ukuba uyabathanda" kufuneka yanele. Ezinye zeencasa kwiipakethi ezahlukahlukeneyo ziyacekiseka, ngoko fumana iindidi azithandayo kwaye uzame ukuzigcina phantsi kwezo kuphela. Ukuba uyayazi impilo, enye yezo zithupha zeziqhamo inokuba yinto nje. Ukuba ubunokumnika nje ibhegi yeziqhamo, ayizubhabha. Kodwa unako uku-odola isipha esenziwe sisiqhelo seziqhamo eziqingqiweyo ezintle nezimnandi. Konke kubuyela ekwazini ukuba ngubani ojongene naye.Xa kufikwa kwizilwanyana ezixutywe, vele uhambe ngento asele enayo. Ukuba uyazithanda, mhlawumbi uya kuba sele enazo. Bathatha igumbi kwaye abanye abafazi bawafumana bengenanjongo, ke bathenge kuphela ukuba sele enayo. Ngokumalunga nobukhulu, landela le nto anayo. Ukuba unazo ezimbalwa ezincinci, fumana enye encinci. Ukuba unezilwanyana ezinkulu, cinga ngokufumana enkulu, kodwa ungahlala uncinci. Musa ukulenza libe lukhuphiswano. Xa kufikwa kumakhadi, funda ngokwenene izinto. Ndakhe ndapha intombazana ikhadi kuba yayidlala ingoma emnandi xa ulivula. Bekufanele ndilifunde ngocoselelo eli khadi. Ithe kancinci kunokuba bendifuna ukuyithetha ndineminyaka eyi-16 kwaye bendijongeka njenge-twit ye-melodramatic. Xa kuziwa kumakhadi, gxininisa ngakumbi kumagama kunoyilo. Uya kuyifunda eneneni. Ukuba ubungazukumjonga emehlweni uthethe ngomlomo wakho, ungacingi nokucinga ngokumnika ikhadi elitshoyo. Inokuba nzima ngokwenene.Iintyatyambo ziluhlobo olufanayo lwento. Abanye abafazi bayabathanda kwaye abanye babafumana bengama-clich okanye abangenanto. Ukuba uza kufumana iintyatyambo, zama ukuzicwangcisa kwangaphambili. Khumbula ukuba izipho zemveli ziya kuhluthwa ngokukhawuleza malunga neholide. Ceba kwangaphambili ukuze uphephe ukungxama kunye noxinzelelo.