UJennifer Fisher malunga nendlela yokuPhumelela kwiShishini lezacholo

Njengomfundi kwiDyunivesithi yaseSouthern California, apho wafunda khona ukuthengisa ishishini, wathathwa lihlabathi lefashoni emva koqeqesho kwi-LA Style kunye nemagazini ye-Detour. “Ndandicinga ukuba ndifuna ukusebenza kwicala lentengiso yokupapasha, kwaye ndiza kubona iirenki zempahla zidlula,” utshilo. Nje ukuba aqonde ukuba "ukwicala elingalunganga," waqala umsebenzi wakhe wokuba ngumdlali wesitayile ozinze eLos Angeles. Wayeza kufumana uthando kamva kwaye afudukele eNew York, ezimisele ukuqala usapho. Oku kuya kuba ngumzamo onzima. Emva kokuphunyelwa zizisu ezibini nge-surrogate, kunye nonyango lwe-IVF, ekugqibeleni wazala unyana wakhe uShane.

“Kukho isizathu kweli bali lide,” wachaza kwigumbi lakhe lokubonisa e-5th Avenue. "Xa unyana wam wazalwa, ndandikhangela into epholile ngokwenene ukumbonisa." Emva kokuba edlule kubunzima obunjalo, uFisher wayeyinyanzele into awayeyifuna. Okulusizi kukuba, ekuphela kweziqwenga awazifumanayo yayizizacholo eziethe-ethe, ezincinane ezazingabufanelanga ubuntu bakhe, okanye ezazibonisa indlela awayefuna ukumzukisa ngayo unyana wakhe. “Ngoko ke, ndaye ndagqiba ukwenza le necklace emilise okwethegi yenja endandiyinxibe kwitsheyini yegolide enzima kakhulu,” utshilo. "Ndiyenze kuba ndifuna into eyahlukileyo; Ndandifuna igama lakhe elipheleleyo, kwaye akukho mntu wayeyila izinto ezinje ngelo xesha." Kanye ngolo hlobo, wabona ukuba kukho indawo efuna ukufakwa, kwaye kwavela ishishini. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uFisher wabetha intambo kunye nabathengi ababekhangela iziqwenga ezinesibindi, ezikhulu, kwaye ngokungafaniyo nempahla ye-wispy eyayixhaphakile kwintengiso yobucwebe.

"Ndicinga ukuba saziwa ngobucwebe besinxibo esiqhelekileyo, kodwa sinobugqwirha kuba bomelele. Ewe, izacholo ezomeleleyo,” utshilo. “Kwinqanaba elilungileyo, saziwa ngokwenza ngokwezifiso. Onke amaqhekeza am anomphetho kubo-awathambanga kangako. ” Ukuba nobuhle obucacileyo busebenza ngokuthanda kukaFisher, njengoko kumenza ahluke kumzi-mveliso ogcweleyo. Nokuba ziithegi zezinja, amaqhina, izikrufu okanye amatyathanga, zonke iziyilo zikaFisher zixhobisa umgangatho oqingqiweyo, ndithathele-nzulu. Kodwa eyona nto iphawuleka ngakumbi yindlela awayila ngayo inkampani yakhe-yokwahlulahlula iiakhawunti zakhe zentengiso e-Barney's New York kunye ne-Net-A-Porter, apho athengisa khona iziqwenga zakhe zobhedu, ukusuka kwingqokelela yakhe yobucwebe, ubucwebe obuhle, abuthengisa ngaye. Indawo yorhwebo kunye negumbi lokubonisa eNew York.

“Ndibathatha njengamashishini amabini ahlukeneyo,” ucacise watsho. “Ingqokelela yobhedu yeza ngexesha lokudodobala koqoqosho. Abahleli [beMagazini] bafuna izacholo ezinkulu zamabali, kwaye bendichitha i-10,000 yeedola kwezi zacholo kunye neekhafu. Ngoko ke, saqalisa ukugalela ubhedu kwaye sayigulisa ukuze ibukeke njengegolide. Ngequbuliso, saqala ukufumana konke oku kubekwa komhleli. ” Nangona uninzi lokwamkelwa kwakhe luvela kwiziqwenga zobhedu ezibonakala kwezi glosi zefashoni ziphakamileyo, kunye nesikhundla sakhe sokuba ngumjikelo wokugqibela weCFDA/Vogue Fashion Fund, undoqo we Ishishini lakhe likuluhlu lwakhe lwezacholo ezintle-kakhulu, ubuhle bakhe. Njengoko echaza:

“Undoqo emva kobucwebe bethu obuhle kukuba inika abathengi into ekungekho mntu wumbi unayo. Singayenza ngegolide emhlophe, erozi okanye etyheli; 18K okanye 14K; amatyathanga ahlukeneyo obude obuhlukeneyo; iileta zedayimani okanye imihla yedayimani; unokuba nayo ikrolwe. Akukho mntu ufuna into efanayo. Kwaye ngamakhubalo ethu, xa abathengi bethenga enye, bayabanjwa kwaye baqhubeke bewathenga. ” Ngokugcina ingqokelela yakhe yezacholo ezintle endlwini, ngokuthetha, uFisher uyakwazi ukulawula imida yakhe, kwaye enze imbuyekezo ethe kratya kuye. utyalo-mali. Iivenkile zeSebe nazo azifane zithenge amaqhekeza amahle ngokuthe ngqo, zikhetha ukuzithenga xa zithunyelwa, njengoko zingafuni ukuthatha umngcipheko wokuthengisa imveliso enexabiso eliphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, bazimisele ngakumbi ukuthenga ubucwebe bempahla engabizi kakhulu, bebonisa kwisiseko sabo sabathengi abathembekileyo, kunye nokuqhubela phambili ulwazi lophawu. “Bendizenzela inkonzo entle ngokwenza le modeli yomelele kakhulu kwasekuqaleni,” utshilo uFisher.

Unale nto engqondweni, kuyavakala ukuba uFisher uya kubhiyozela iminyaka eyi-10 ngomgca wobucwebe obuhle. Iqulathe amakhonkco okutyikitya kunye nentsimbi yomqala eyenziwe ngegolide eyi-18K kunye ne-enamel ekrolwe kwiinyoka, iintyatyambo kunye neendudumo, le ngqokelela yesikhumbuzo iphawula okokuqala uFisher esebenzisa umbala kuyilo lwakhe, ajonge ukwakha phezu kwalo ngeziqwenga ezinombala omnye. “Ewe, sazisa udidi olutsha, kodwa lukwajongana nesiseko sabathengi bam abasele benayo, masithi, intsimbi yam yomqala, kwaye ndifuna ukongeza umtsalane ovela kwingqokelela ye-enamel yombala,” utshilo.

Kwaye nangona inokwahluka kancinane kwinto ayenzileyo kwixesha elidlulileyo, ingqokelela ingena kwi-DNA yohlobo. Kule mihla, ngefashoni ezaliswe kukuvelisa iindlela ezintsha rhoqo, uFisher wenze ukuba alandele ithuku lakhe, kunye nokuyila ubucwebe obuhambelana neemfuno zabaxhasi bakhe, abangabasetyhini njengaye. “Ndingumthengi wam ofanelekileyo-umfazi okhululekileyo oyaziyo into ayifunayo,” utshilo. "Nguye esithengisela wona yonke imihla: abafazi ababona into abayithandayo, bayithenge, kwaye bayenze ngaphandle kwemvume." Ukuba umntu ebenokujonga i-fashion titans efana no-Miuccia Prada Ralph Lauren, kunye no-Diane von Furstenberg, kunzima ukungaqapheli ukuba ingqokelela yabo ithetha njani nendlela yabo yokuphila-nokuba yi-Italian sophisticate, cowboy preppy, okanye i-globetrotter ebukekayo. Bangqina ukuba ukunamathela kumbono owahlukileyo yinto efunekayo ukuze uphumelele ngokwenene kumzi mveliso oshinyene ngokumangalisayo. Kwaye ukuba ixesha lelona nqanaba lokuphumelela, uFisher usendleleni yokujoyina le pantheon idumileyo.

“Ndiyazenzela, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba elinye ibhinqa lizinxulumanisa nalo,” utshilo. Ngamanye amaxesha bayakwenza, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abakwenzi. Ndiqale ishishini lam njengoyena mthengi wam ungcono, kwaye yindlela endiya kuqhubeka ngayo.